5 Tips to Get Your Ex Back:
To get your ex back what you really want? You really miss that person's mind, body and soul? Or do you just want them back because he wants what is not? See the difference?
Look at the big picture of you and your ex - past and present. Now, take yourself (and emotions) out of the picture. What advice would you give to yourself about your current situation?
Understandably, this is hard to do when you are drowning in a river of tears. But if you can get to this point, you will be able to clearly see what to do; offset or move on. If you choose to reconcile with his ex, follow these steps to increase your chances of success.
1. Keep your dignity and do not ask
Extreme or desperate begging behavior only makes you look pathetic in the eyes of your ex. Also, this may induce feelings of bitterness below. How would you feel if they did this to you? This is the wrong approach. At all costs maintain their dignity.
2. If necessary, apologize to your ex
Are you one of those people who never apologize or admit when they are wrong? If so, you need to come clean and swallow your pride. Chances are you probably will be immediately pardoned by the arrival of his high horse, coming down to Earth, and actually saying sorry for whatever it is you did. Not only that, your ex is likely to lose his head and looks in a new light (respect).
3. Actions speak louder than words
Talk is cheap, while stocks demonstrate motivation. So stop telling your ex how much you've changed - show. Promises are just dust in the wind if you put action behind them - especially if your ex has heard it all before.
4. Emotional Blackmail never works
It may not feel like it right now, but you can live very well without your ex. letting your emotions completely out of control and use them against your ex with threats and manipulations probably send them running in the other direction.
In addition, it will highlight the exact reasons why it is likely to have problems in the first place. Want to meet someone who is honest and hopeful to do with you or with someone who feels negatively pressured in conciliation with you?
5. Romance his way back to his ex
So it seems, a romance with her ex with the intention of getting back may seem a bit manipulative. However, if done with a sincere and genuine heart, by all means go for it. Send your ex authentic love letters, gifts knowing that they will enjoy, or simply remind them of the good times you two once shared.
Do not focus on what went wrong, but rather what went well. Remind either through words or actions the reasons why two met initially caused their attraction to each other.
You will be fine no matter what. Indeed, should be happy before I can make anyone happy. Also, if you get your ex back means they are not willing to meet you halfway, then maybe it's time to say goodbye. No relationship is worth sacrificing his soul or happiness.
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